I attended the best friends of mine s   Thanksgiving  Dinner and am happy that I changed  my thoughts and mind so I told myself , and later on them that I would come.    I used the it is an extra special occasion on my debating to not go with the other half of me.    I convinced me.   Yippee.   This was quality time spending which can do restoring my soul and spirit.  Doing this up resulted in warming my heart too.  Boo  boop  bee  do.