How the hell can you decide be picked up and drove over to good pals for Thanksgiving.  If as in my case I have had to get a right hip replacement.  For an extra long time .   I cannot feel like adding  to lengthening the time until I can have the surgery.  Even if it is just a maybe do thing since going to the nice peoples home may screw up me more due to me than them. I  surely have got to be careful.